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To Pilot 		crush! Pilot, 30 Jul 2023 08:25
what a sweet boy!! he called me, and talking to me lovely.
i’ve never been called lovely.
it’s been one of my biggest fears,
not being lovely.
but it seemed easy for him to say so.

To Sjeu 		Your lovability is not in question, dear Sjeu, 30 Jul 2023 13:27
Enjoy your crush :- )

My compatibility-parameters have had a reset about 5 years ago after I've noticed a detrimental partnering-pattern.

Looking for a kind man, who intends to keep things real is the new setting.

Since then, being aware and keeping away from 'nice guys' has proven to be no problem since those previous nice guy-experiences trained my bs-radar to be on point. My dad had this enabling pattern too so I can see how I've been a match with them before.

Kind = key :- )

youtu.be/KMDmry4BXPQ

To Sjeu 		Strong willedcourage.here Sjeu, 17 Jul 2023 11:30
Fear is a reaction.
Courage is a decision.
Fear is crippled coping.
Courage is healthy practice.
Fear is needed, managed well.
Courage is wanted, managed well.
Weak minds convert a fear to hatred.
Strong minds combat fear with knowledge.

To Sjeu 		~ Sjeu, 17 Jul 2023 11:33
Ask yourself what can nourish your spirit.
Ask yourself what your motive is to go ahead.
Ask yourself what the use of learning might be.
Ask yourself what is limiting or holding you back.
Ask yourself what is the worst that could happen.

To Sjeu 		~ Sjeu, 17 Jul 2023 11:34
Ask yourself what your standard of living requires.
Ask yourself what you want the outcome to look like.
Ask yourself what needs to happen for you to start it.
Ask yourself what good can come from this experience.
Ask yourself what moment is better to proceed then now.

To Mudokonsam 		Oppositional Defiancethink.here Mudokonsam, 12 Jul 2023 20:37
I like this one! Really captures a feeling of not wanting to be creative due to others insisting it upon me.
The more they ask, the more I will firmly sit in this box. I can have a non standard approach to life some other day.

To Jogchem 		Thanks! Jogchem, 09 Aug 2023 14:19
I wonder if anyone ever solved it, though...

To Mudokonsam 		Gutterdown.here Mudokonsam, 12 Jul 2023 20:18
I like this one. It makes me think of the emotional equivalent of the doorway dance when you try to move out of someone's way but just end up stepping in their way again. I do this a lot, oops!

To Sjeu 		It does contain Sjeu, 14 Jul 2023 09:09
the promise of a playful interaction or friendly banter when you smile along this dance :- )

To Orionsgirl 		I was at the dmv Orionsgirl, 08 Jul 2023 04:13
in those hard plastic chairs and a baby ladybug fell from the ceiling onto my hand and crawled around in circles for a while and I just felt like in that moment the world was letting me know it hadn't forgotten about me

To Sjeu 		Life can be funny Sjeu, 09 Jul 2023 08:53
that way :- )

To Nobody 		that's beautiful Nobody, 09 Jul 2023 19:38
...both the baby ladybug and you're appreciation for it. Sometimes it doesn't take much to make a day great.

To Solacedsoon 		Did I miss the obvious or did they?!down.here Solacedsoon, 07 Jul 2023 17:07
I reacted to this new offering on your facebook page with a laughy face emoji, Jogchem - I seem to be the only one who found it funny, and now I'm wondering if I have been misunderstanding your humor... I was perceiving self-deprecation and an appreciation for the absurdity. Are you not laughing a bit at yourself in this Down in the Dumps post? Actually, I thought the entire site was a way to poke fun at your foibles and occasional inanity, those conditions that so often come with being human..

optical.toys/disappearing-bicyclist/

To Nobody 		you got it Solacedsoon! Nobody, 09 Jul 2023 19:42
I like to overthink things until they become absurd. Would recommend that to anyone. You totally get it!

To Amdulka 		I am officially moving out of my Amdulka, 30 Jun 2023 18:03
childhood home tomorrow. I'm insanely excited to be finally able to take a breath of freedom and individuality. But at the same time I'm sat here looking around my childhood bedroom. Thinking about the memories these walls could speak of. All the tears shed and laughter heard. The nights of last summer when I would read my favourite book over and over and drink wine and would feel so content.

To Amdulka 		It's a very bittersweet feeling. Amdulka, 30 Jun 2023 18:05
But I love bittersweet things. Those are the things that remind me that I'm alive. You want to cry with joy and sorrow and scream at the sky. You feel your heart sinking but at the same time you see the light of hope in your reflection in the mirror.
I guess this is one of those things.

To Sjeu 		Yay! Sjeu, 01 Jul 2023 21:21
Big day :- )

And sodade. It describes a deep emotional state of nostalgic or profound melancholic longing for an absent something or someone that one loves.

youtu.be/Y2cHuTrhH1Y

To Nobody 		that was beautiful... Nobody, 09 Jul 2023 19:51
thanks!

To Nobody 		thanks! Nobody, 09 Jul 2023 19:51
thanks for that little peek into your childhood home and mind. freedom versus comforting familiarity... a recurring theme. please keep sharing these musings...

To Amdulka 		thank you, intend to do so, Amdulka, 10 Jul 2023 22:08
this space feels very comforting and safe. It's a place where I can talk about things that people wouldn't normally understand. A place where I can rave about things I love and my experiences that are currently shaping my life. My boyfriend is sitting beside me. I gave him a peek at this site and he loves it. He finds it cute :)
thank you for everything

To Amdulka 		I've started dating this guy a few Amdulka, 30 Jun 2023 09:22
weeks ago. We get along great and have amazing chemistry. But my brain is getting the better of me constantly asks me if he's ''the one''. And while I don't believe in soulmates or ''the one'' I can't help but wonder. I would like to believe that there is one designated person for everyone that we're destined to meet and spend the rest of our lives with. And sometimes it seems true. It's my friends and relatives who swear on god their spouse is their soulmate. That they are destined to be.

To Amdulka 		but what if that ''one'' person doesn't Amdulka, 30 Jun 2023 09:26
exist for me? this man I am seeing is great and he likes me a lot. But we don't see the world in the same way, which is something my friends tell me soulmates do. But what if he's willing to listen and wants to see the world through my eyes? even if it's just for a bit. And what if I'm willing to do the same for him?
What if soulmates are made and not just destined to be? I know it's a long shot to call someone I've known for 2 months a soulmate but I'm a hopeless romantic, that will latch onto

To Amdulka 		any string of hope there is? Amdulka, 30 Jun 2023 09:27
I hope all of you are well. I hope the universe is treating you well, and I hope you are treating yourselves well.

To Sjeu 		Hope can help build a desire Sjeu, 01 Jul 2023 20:11
Like you, I used to be a hopeless romantic. It didn't work out as I hoped. You've probably heard about girls that didn't feel loved by their dad and therefor would believe any man offering love, even if there was none.

Predators spot their prey immaculately.

I learned that if a man is into you, he will let you know. You wouldn't have any doubt about it. When you feel wishywashy about a relation/ situation-ship, it's probably because you're sensing mixed signals..

Few exceptions there..Try?

To Sjeu 		At the same time Sjeu, 01 Jul 2023 21:00
I don't know if I'd recognize 'the one' for me even if there where subtitles..

~ What you want isn't always what you need and visa versa.

Hope you have found or will find your perfect match! And please keep us posted if you like.

Also I hope that the universe fluffs it's miracle quotum and sends me a compatible match too when it does. Nothing less though! I've reached the point where I get to discover and enjoy the good side of life. :- )

To Amdulka 		thank you for your kind message, Amdulka, 02 Jul 2023 11:33
he is currently sitting beside me and I couldn't be more sure likes me. He's very much into me and I'm very much into him. It's a beautiful, colourful and passionate start of a relationship. He helped me move in yesterday. After many failed situationships I'm sure this man wants to stay by my side for as long as possible. Don't really know why, though. I keep overthinking the reason and subsequently sabotaging myself and making myself feel bad- only because I have a poor self-esteem.

To Amdulka 		and i really hope you find the one Amdulka, 02 Jul 2023 11:37
you're looking for. Everyone deserves companionship, love and tenderness. They're out there, somewhere, waiting for you. I know you'll find your path to them (or the path will find you) :)

To Sjeu 		How someone shows up beside you Sjeu, 02 Jul 2023 12:43
and how they make you feel is usually telling a lot. Actions mostly speak louder then words. Wonderful to notice you're honest and frank with each other. Communication and holding space vs. holding back seems the sure way to go. Sounds very good the way you describe it and your journey together is also great food for your eloquent writing skills. To be each others muse can bring out the best in both. Enjoy yourselves dears!

To Blueymaybeee 		whatwhether.here Blueymaybeee, 29 Jun 2023 01:42
why does this guy love saying burn, are they like a simpsons fan or something

To Blueymaybeee 		o.k.?life.here Blueymaybeee, 29 Jun 2023 01:37
just remove the dots, and you're good to go


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